Melanie+Rivera

 ​====Hi, my name is Melanie Rivera. I am interested in working with children but at the same time always had an interest in forensic. I had an experience at work about 4 years ago that made me change my major from Paramedic/nursing to Social Work. I believe in my heart that every child deserves a good home. Every child needs love, no child is borned bad or should I say misbehaved. The way children act is sometimes from their environment. I want to help all the children out there that have neen neglected, abused, and mistreated in anyway. Children want to be told they are love and shown they are loved. They want and need kisses and hugs, they want help with school work and they want you there for them when they are sad and crying. I want to be able to speak for those children that cannot speak for themselves.====

"Child abuse is more than bruises and broken bones. Emotional abuse or child neglect, also leave deep, long lasting scars."

Myths and facts about child abuse and neglect MYTH #1: It's only abuse if it's violent. Fact: Physical abuse is just one type of child abuse. Neglect and emotional abuse can be just as damaging, and since they are more subtle, others are less likely to intervene. . MYTH #2: Only bad people abuse their children. Fact: While it's easy to say that only "bad people" abuse their children, it's not always so black and white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a substance abuse problem. MYTH #3: Child abuse doesn't happen in “good” families. Fact: Child abuse doesn't only happen in poor families or bad neighborhoods. It crosses all racial, economic, and cultural lines. Sometimes, families who seem to have it all from the outside are hiding a different story behind closed doors. MYTH #4: Most child abusers are strangers. Fact: While abuse by strangers does happen, most abusers are family members or others close to the family MYTH #5: Abused children always grow up to be abusers. Fact: It is true that abused children are more likely to repeat the cycle as adults, unconsciously repeating what they experienced as children. On the other hand, many adult survivors of child abuse have a strong motivation to protect their children against what they went through and become excellent parents. []